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Monday, April 6, 2009, 2:37 AM
Learn to be. Be glad.
I'm sorry there isn't any inspirational stories being posted here.But, something has been always in my mind for quite a long time. Have you ever felt how it feels like when a needle pokes you unexpectedly? Do you feel painful? A sharp one? Or an ordinary pain? A pain that is so surprising and it feels like a sting. A pain that you couldn't control and explain. When someone makes a mistake or a blunder. Great or tiny, it's still a wrong move that the someone has made. As a friend, would you bring that person to the streets where many people are to embarrass her? Bring her down to shame? Let everyone know her wrongdoings and everyone starts to judge her?! . . . . Okay, let's pretend we have done something wrong. And your friend whom you loved and respected exposed your foolishness. How would you feel? Compare the pain with a stranger doing that to a FRIEND doing that to you. The pain has a huge difference right? The pain that a friend has brought was just like the , sharp stingy pain that the needle has done. Everybody makes mistakes, even I. We're human beings and we sin. Why do we have to choose to hurt people instead of forgiving them? If he/she didn't own up, it doesn't matter. Don't be ablaze just because you caught that someone and you start criticizing him/her. Maybe you love her and you want her to change. But doing this kind of method is rather too mean. Speak to him/her, slowly say your thoughts out and try not to use cruel words. Forgive them for what they have done. Because if we criticise, judge and speak rude words, we're adding salt to him/her wounds. Be loving and the person will change. Time can't be stopped or reversed. Words that were said yesterday couldn't be retrieved back. I hope my post rang a bell in your head/ let you learn or realize something. Please continue to support us and daily click our URL! Tag us or email to : bowlcut_bobhair@hotmail.com |