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Tuesday, March 31, 2009, 1:15 AM

Finding faults

It's a nice story.
If you read it seriously,
you might bring it with you down the rest of the road of your lives.

A man and his girlfriend were married.
It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations.
All had a wonderful time.

A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal:
"I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage."

She offered,
"Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."

The husband agreed.
So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other.
They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.

The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.

"I'll start," offered the wife.
She took out her list. It had many items on it. Enough to fill 3 pages, in fact.
As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband’s eyes.

"What's wrong?" she asked.
"Nothing" the husband replied, "keep reading your list."

The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband.
She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it.

"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists." She said happily.

Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me.
You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."

The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.

IN LIFE, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed.
we don't really have to go looking for them.
we have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise.

why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?

I believe that WE ARE HAPPIEST WHEN we see and praise the good and try our best to forget the bad.
Nobody's perfect but we can find perfectness in them to change the way we see them.

-credits: citehr.com

are we like the husband? or are we like the wife?
its alright even if we are like the wife.
everyone makes mistakes.
its a matter of the willingness to change or not.

one question.
how can we point out someone's mistakes,
when we have a plank in your eye?
that plank refers to our own mistakes.

if you want to help others, help yourself first.
start with yourself!
why waste time finding faults of others?
it is never ending, but it is ever accepting.

starting from today,
look at yourselves in the mirror.

did you hurt someone today?
did you gossip about someone today?
did you do something that you feel guilty about?

change it!
accept other people's faults.
why?
because people accepted your faults too.

Feel free to comment how you feel after reading this :D
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